'P-E-R-F-E-C-T'
Define this.
It could be a lot of things.
Such like walking posture, the way you talk, your body language, the job, the work you are having, the life you are living, etc.
But we are not born perfectly. We all have flaws that sometimes it is minimal for you to see on your own, yet it is visible to be seen to other people.
It may be your parents who want you to be the best in everything always.
It may be your boyfriend/girlfriend who want you to be the perfect boy/girl or so-called their 'dream boy/dream girl''
It may be your teacher, your mentor, who want you to get good result, good attitude, good personalities.
It may be your friends, who want you to be.. well... anything that is good :)
We can choose to be perfect or not. Depends on us.
Yet, when you ask for people to be that good, think of yourself.
If you are that good, yes, you can have the right to ask people to be like that.
If you are not, sorry to say that you don't have any.
I am not perfect. I don't get good results, I don't get high pay job, I don't get Victoria Secret's models body shape(all the body parts :p), I don't have flawless skin.
But I am grateful that I have what I have now. Nobody is perfect. Yet we are making ourselves a better person.
I understand that you are making me a better person. A lady. A tough one. Like you said, I am now going through what you've been through. Your advise is very much appreciated. Really. I am happy having you in my life. Just don't let me feels like I am not good, I am far from perfect.. It really does make me feel like giving up. I don't give up, I am still trying because I know you would accept me for who I am. This keep on changing, in the sense of making me a better person, it sometimes also means I am not who I am already. I feel lost sometimes. It's really sad when you are lost :( Sigh....
Good night readers.
xoxo,
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